Losing your Key, your power.
I wanted to post this article of what happens when a man in relationship with a woman looses his power, or as Rafa saw in his dream, loosing his “key,” to follow, The Pre-Domesticated Man. (See: www.empoweringmen.com/page/4/) but missed posting it, my apology for the delay. Enjoy!
luis i was touched by the email u sent about the man who gave up himself unconsciously to his wife… and i was touched also by some of your words like domestication.. giving up ones soul to make peace … i had a powerful dream ago about losing my key.. and not caring for it.. that someone else if one is not powerful enough or conscious enough , will pick it up.. our key. our power.. and that is a most horrible thing for a man.. seems as if this man had given his key to someone else.. perhaps to make peace.. in my experience i have found that women will pick up your key if one leaves it around .. after that dream i kept my key very close to me… it is my key ..not the wife, sister or mother as you wrote… it will be interesting to me if you tell me what happens to that man now that he has realized something so vital to his being. especially his being as a man.. when i realized others were in control of me.. and in speaking that as i took back my key my power my source all fucking hell broke loose.. my twin sister turned on me with darkness, my mom also.. my adopted daughter .. and others .. but i had no choice really that once i saw clearly that i had left my power so carelessly unguarded that others would be happy to pick it up and when they did.. all true masculinity vanished.. i think domesticated was the word used by you… and in my opinion a man does not do well being dominated unwittingly by anyone , especially the feminine .. anyway, let me know please what happens to this man.. if he picks up his key and holds it tight to his breast and then awakens, he may have hell to deal with… that would be interesting to me if you report what happened when a man awakens in this manner… rafa
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If one is coming from a co-dependant relationship, a man has various routes in finding his “key,” his power in becoming his own person, in relationship. One is to get angry and become victimized toward anyone taking his “key,” as well as for letting anyone take his key. Another is to rebel toward his woman partner as if it was his mother that most likely he was never able to kindly break away from. Yet, another way that a man can reclaim their key, their power, and place in relationship, is with kindness, compassion, and love. He does this by explaining his “wanting” and maybe his “need” to have his own key for his freedom in relationship with partner.
Yes, the transition may be rocky, remember, time creates rigidity in one’s life and it may take time for both to come to a new understanding of “equality” in their new relationship. Keep communicating, expressing your feelings as close to the moment as possible. Please remember, true power comes from the man that can live life from a place of the “feminine” and “masculine” energies with-in him self.
My suggestion is that we men must never loose our Key, or as Rafa, stated, keep it close to your chest, near your heart, using kindness, compassion, and love, while conversing with your partner. Trust me, this will create peace, stability, and in turn happiness to each partner, as well as for the relationship it self.
Remember men, this also means, that you need to keep connecting with your own feminine, your emotional body that carries your feelings and emotions, and keeping your balance of both your emotional and mental mind’s at all times.
Be well, and keep up your practice… luis
To see article Stalking the Pre Emasculated Man, go to:
http://www.empoweringmen.com/page/5/
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