Posts from — March 2010

Hello Don Luis,

One of the biggest obstacles I feel I need to face is in letting go control and learning to listen and follow my heart. I had great mirrors for this through my parents who I became submissive to and later rebellious to all other authority outside. I am aware of the anger and sadness this has brought up as I have reacted and operated from this in me and suppressed my heart through fear and attempted to control life via the mind, which I know is futile.

I’m well aware that this affects all aspects in my life, most importantly, my self expression through my professional work.  A fear of losing control and belief in scarcity has effected my decisions.  I have learned to suppress the messages of my heart and therefore have listened to the rational of my mind as my guide.  I have banged my head on the wall of life striving to find positive expression through my income earning position but have not found it, why, because the under lying motivator has always been Financial and not expression. I have been unable to allow my heart guide me, unable to let go of mind control.

The best I can; and I continue to find forgiveness for my parents and for myself in believing and taking on this programming. I am trying to learn to really trust in that feminine aspect in me. How best can this be done? How do I overcome the fear of letting go control so as to allow Spirit express and unfold through me and my life situation? I would like to hear the messages of other men who are similarly becoming aware of this limited pattern and of those who have faced this and are now listening and following their hearts which ultimately allows Love and happiness to naturally flow.

With Love and respect, jd