Posts from — July 2009

Dear All,

I’d like to share an experience that presented itself a few days ago –

I was told a story where someone I know had paid in full upfront for wedding photos and a video for the event that occurred over two years ago. The Photographer has still not delivered and his response to any enquiry for an update is I’ll get on to it, but then nothing happens. I found myself immediately becoming very angry, how dare he do this! Immediately I wanted to see action I was telling them what they needed to do to sort this grave injustice out! I couldn’t fully understand why I was so set alight but I recognised it, its effect on my happiness and that it had nothing to do with me.

Sitting with the anger I came to realise that this was a trait of one of my parents; ‘The Judge’ leaping into action at a whiff of injustice for ‘The Victim’ the common man, ready to do battle. I had taken on this trait a conditioning from my up bringing. In shining a light on this I realised that there are no victims he wouldn’t be doing this if they weren’t doing it to themselves, if they couldn’t see this too bad and not my business to show them. In recognition the anger I was feeling subsided and my personal freedom a little freer as another piece of conditioning is put aside.

There are 5points to Stalking

In the above I was not aware enough to catch myself in the moment. The awareness came in after or during my buttons been pushed. But I was able to connect with it and reflect after the fact. In this way I am doing the best I can and in connecting afterward was able to see the message in the experience.

In the group setting we look to connect with the five steps. The group has a loose structure with some basic direction but really what needs to come up at the time will and all benefit from the experiences and support in sharing. Comments and suggestions are always welcome ensuring that all who attends gets what they need on their own individual path.

For those of you interested in learning how to stalk the mind through the emotions and benefit from the support of a group setting the Galway stalking group will be held next Thursday 30^th July.  Hope to see you sometime soon!

Regards Jason.

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The key point in this very powerful process is the first and second steps.  Becoming aware of your own feelings and emotions and staying connected to that feeling in you, before your own mind avoids what you may have been holding to a new topic. This “sense,” feeling, intuition, is the warring light of your own mind telling you that something is not right in you.  Let’s face it men, most of us were not taught how to connect, own and express our feelings, consequently, this to me is the most challenging part of the process.

Connecting to that “anger” that Jason talks about, owning it as much as possible, and then expressing it with kindness, compassion and love.  The more we stalk our self and refrain from that limited pattern the more we heal that wound in you that brings about the anger, sadness, judgement and consequently the victim.  An additional information that the Stalking Process give us is the awareness that we may be ready to Recapitulate our energectic self in creating an energetic balance with-in.

When connected with others doing this work for them selves, through the sharing, discussing the process on a bi-weekly meetings, can bring clarity and support during your own process in becoming the best Stalker for your Self…            luis